The four manifestations indicate that the other party has derailed the five conditions of derailment

Some people think that the marital relationship without sex relationship is not derailed. This is a big mistake. Because the derailed person has betrayed the lover from the heart, even if he does not have sex with others, his emotional focus is no longer in the family. It can be said that emotional derailment is even worse than physical derailment. If your partner has the following performances, he/she has betrayed you. 1, often find excuses not to go home. The couple who have spiritual derailment will feel that they are uninteresting at home, so they often find excuses not to go home. Even if they go home, they would rather be alone, be idle and bored, and would not be willing to have fun together with the other party. The couple are in front of their eyes, but they are two days of ice and fire. 2, inexplicably bored. A person who has a mental derailment, surely, there will be objects of empathy, which may be secret love, or may be awkward situations, but the mentally derailed side, the mental attention is often The object has gone, I feel that my current partner is just cumbersome and redundant. 3. Making love is also a routine. A mentally derailed party also has no interest in couple sex, even if it is sometimes routinely required for physiological needs, but it is often quick and quick. 4. Take the other person to compare with others. It’s not good to look at each other. Even a little thing is going to blame the other person. Even when you are arguing, you will deliberately provoke the other party’s feelings of grievances. Even if the other party deliberately performs, they will never enter his mind, and they will always take the other side. The more people compare, the more fun it is. Five kinds of status signals that lead to women’s derailment 1: She will become an unusual anniversary every 10 or 30 birthdays at the turning point of 25, 30, and 35 years old. Sometimes even a man can not help but feel a sense of life, not to mention the time flies as a woman of the enemy. At this time, women usually ask themselves: “I have done something for 5 years? Who is this guy with me?” Experts point out that women usually pay attention to life at this time, examine love and life, and if everything is not as expected, she is likely to try the life she is looking for through an affair. According to the survey, women who are unhappy with marriage have a three-fold incidence of affair before and after the birthday. Signal 2: She got promoted and sat in an independent office. Maybe you don’t know much about this kind of complex, then think about yourself. Like men, women like to challenge themselves at work. Once the goal is achieved, you will ask yourself: The goal is achieved, but what about it? That’s how people do. Once this goal is achieved, women will take another important part of her life, feelings, as the focus of the next effort. Experts point out that women who are at the peak of their careers will feel that they are invincible, and their continuous success will motivate them to acquire more important parts of their lives. Moreover, earning more will get worse, the same applies to women. Women with an annual salary of 10W will be 1.5 times more likely to have an extramarital sex relationship than the annual salary of 4W. Signal 3: She started to move in, and it may be her idea to stay with you all the time, but after all, it is not as simple as thinking about it. You know each other well, and you know what you have to say. You start to feel that there seems to be nothing to say… At this time she will subconsciously think that you are already tired of her, and if there are others around me at the moment, it shows that she is very popular. Very interesting and attractive, she will cast in the arms of that person. According to the survey, 41% of women who had an affair were their colleagues. Signal 4: She guesses that you have a bad retaliatory affair is common, and women will regard this as a way to regain self-esteem. Very simple, she wants to be fair. Of course, she may not be hooked up outside, but what you do will disappoint her and reduce her control. In many cases, a woman’s desire for fairness will overwhelm her inherent value system. Signal 5: She is not satisfied in bed. As the relationship grows and ages, maybe you are not as active in bed as you were then. But for her, she may think more, she will regard this as a sign of losing attraction and you no longer love her. Not simply because of physical needs, but also a psychological need: she wants to prove that she still has sexual attraction, which is also a kind of human instinct to resist aging. 5 times. Signal 3: She started to move in, and it may be her idea to stay with you all the time, but after all, it is not as simple as thinking about it. You know each other well, and you know what you have to say. You start to feel that there seems to be nothing to say… At this time she will subconsciously think that you are already tired of her, and if there are others around me at the moment, it shows that she is very popular. Very interesting and attractive, she will cast in the arms of that person. According to the survey, 41% of women who had an affair were their colleagues. Signal 4: She guesses that you have a bad retaliatory affair is common, and women will regard this as a way to regain self-esteem. Very simple, she wants to be fair. Of course, she may not be hooked up outside, but what you do will disappoint her and reduce her control. In many cases, a woman’s desire for fairness will overwhelm her inherent value system. Signal 5: She is not satisfied in bed. As the relationship grows and ages, maybe you are not as active in bed as you were then. But for her, she may think more, she will regard this as a sign of losing attraction and you no longer love her. Not simply because of physical needs, but also a psychological need: she wants to prove that she still has sexual attraction, which is also a kind of human instinct to resist aging. 5 times. Signal 3: She started to move in, and it may be her idea to stay with you all the time, but after all, it is not as simple as thinking about it. You know each other well, and you know what you have to say. You start to feel that there seems to be nothing to say… At this time she will subconsciously think that you are already tired of her, and if there are others around me at the moment, it shows that she is very popular. Very interesting and attractive, she will cast in the arms of that person. According to the survey, 41% of women who had an affair were their colleagues. Signal 4: She guesses that you have a bad retaliatory affair is common, and women will regard this as a way to regain self-esteem. Very simple, she wants to be fair. Of course, she may not be hooked up outside, but what you do will disappoint her and reduce her control. In many cases, a woman’s desire for fairness will overwhelm her inherent value system. Signal 5: She is not satisfied in bed. As the relationship grows and ages, maybe you are not as active in bed as you were then. But for her, she may think more, she will regard this as a sign of losing attraction and you no longer love her. Not simply because of physical needs, but also a psychological need: she wants to prove that she still has sexual attraction, which is also a kind of human instinct to resist aging.